h/t from Cara at The Curvature.
Dear ”Time Out New York,”
When I worked at the bookstore of doom, we carried you. You always seemed like a pretty innocent sort of city guide magazine. You had covers about which restaurants to visit, clubs that were hot, that kind of thing. Nothing that ever really bothered me.
Then Cara pointed to your judge women “Sexy or Skanky?” feature.
This is one of those times where I feel like I should make my opinion known in no uncertain terms: It’s wrong to take candid pictures of total strangers walking around the city on their day-to-day lives without their permission and post them to the internet asking your readership to judge these women as “sexy” or “skanky.”
These aren’t celebs who sign up for public scrutiny by virtue of becoming celebs. These aren’t people who signed up for a contest to be judged. These aren’t people who are modeling outfits for a living. These are women (and, yeah, they’re all women- no men to be seen, thanks) who are going about their lives minding their own business and are now find their pictures up on the site asking your readership to judge them as either sexy or skanky.
Imagine that you (or your girlfriend/sister/mother, if you’re a guy) are walking around on a hot day. You’re just running a few errands and it’s hot as fuck out, so you decide to throw on some shorts and a tank-top. Next thing you know, this site has your picture up, and is asking people to say if you’re a skank or not.
You might be a little embarassed, yeah? Might you feel disgusted by the fact that people are passing judgement on you over something you weren’t aware of? Mighten you feel dirty knowing that someone out there felt privleged enough to take your body and put it on public display for sexual judgement without your consent?
So, yeah. Fuck you, Time Out.
It’d be bad enough if the article were just a “good outfit/bad outfit” judgement. I’d be annoyed, but I understand that sort of thing happens. It’d be embarassing enough to find your picture up on a site and have people saying that your outfit was ugly… but you specifically target this as being sexual. Every picture you put up is now framed as a woman who was trying to look good for the viewer, and is either sexy or skanky, no matter what they were thinking when they got dressed, or what they were wearing. It sends a pretty clear message: If you’re a woman in public, you’re sending a sexual message, and it better be one that we like.
It’s bullshit is what it is.
And the shots themselves are pretty telling. It doesn’t matter what women wear, it’s sexy or it’s skanky. Jeans and a t-shirt? Sexy or skanky. Cotton summer dress? Skanky or sexy. Capri pants and a button up? Sexy or skanky.
Way to intentionally set out to humiliate, objectify, and demean women, “Time Out.”
Again, lest my opinion isn’t absolutely clear:
Fuck you, Time Out.
I’m sending you a letter, and I’m probably going to be a lot less profane and a lot more direct, and I hope that my readers take a moment to do the same. This kind of entitled conduct is offensive, demeaning, and sexist.
Roy
P.S. Fuck you.